"" Writer's Wanderings: Sentimental Effusions of the Heart

Tuesday, November 14, 2006

Sentimental Effusions of the Heart

How many times have you heard a man end the conversation on a phone with the words, "Me too"? You know what's happened. The woman on the other end has just said, "I love you," and he's not willing to say those words and be overheard.

While reading Founding Mothers by Cokie Roberts, I had to chuckle at Abigail Adams. She was having the same problem with John albeit by correspondence not by cell phone. They were separated while John was off to Congress in Philadelphia. She missed him terribly and longed for him to write those words all wives want to hear from their men. Things were not simply written back then but her point was clear when she wrote, "I want some sentimental effusions of the heart. I am sure you are not destitute of them or are they all abosorbed in the great public."

I don't know if John answered properly but the story goes on that shortly thereafter, his correspondence to his wife was embarrassingly intercepted by the British. Not only was he more careful not to expose patriots in his correspondence, but I'm sure his "effusions of the heart" were veiled as well.

2 comments:

Kaye Dacus said...

Okay, Karen, you've convinced me. I've had Founding Mothers sitting on my shelf for over a year. I'm going to have to get it out and read it after seeing your last couple of posts!

Thanks for sharing these nuggets!

Karen said...

It is an interesting read but I'm afraid I'm not going to get it done by Wed. evening. There's a lot to smile about with those gals who were behind the men--make that often in front of the men--forming our country.

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